Foundation4Love Gives Back: Athena Davis

Foundation4Love- Athena Davis

 I feel so blessed to give be able to give back to this lovely young woman. Although never met we connected several months ago when she was diagnosed with breast cancer while also pregnant!  I am so happy her husband Rhad reached out to us--- to give her and her best friend a day of relaxation, this is what he shared with us about Athena!  

Athena has the strength and courage of 100 people and I have been in awe of her throughout this process. Her spirit is so bright and has remained so throughout this difficult time. The fact that she can be an amazing mother, and a marvelous wife in spite of her treatment is truly astonishing. She is my biggest hero and I can only hope that our daughter grows into half the woman that Athena is.

Athena tells her story better than I ever will……..and has so graciously shared with us!  Thank you Athena for being so Strong, Vulnerable, Beautiful and Brave......you are an inspiring woman!  I know it is a long road but Sephy is so very lucky to have you as her Mom!  Enjoy your day of relaxation tomorrow!  <3

This is truly what it is all about for Leah and I!  We get to share beautiful healthy products, educate and then GIVE BACK to amazing people like Athena! 

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Breast cancer –by Athena Davis

I've never been so scared in my life as I was on the day I found out I had breast cancer. I was 9 weeks pregnant. This was my 3rd pregnancy. Unfortunately, the first 2 resulted in miscarriages. Our hearts were already broken before this news. We walked on egg shells those first 9 weeks of pregnancy before we even knew I had cancer. Now what?!?

Is this really happening?!

Is this even possible?! Pregnancy and cancer are 2 words I never thought go together. How could this happen?! I'm so healthy. I eat good and exercise. I don't smoke or work in a hazardous environment. What the hell?!?!

Cancer does not discriminate! It does not care who you are, how old you are, what color your skin is or......................if your pregnant. 

I can never un-live the day I got the news. I can never live my life the same. My old life stopped that day and a new life started. One I did not choose. 

The news was/is so hard to tell people. It's sharp and abrasive. It hangs heavy in the air. It fills the room with a dark cloud. It's so hard to tell people. 

"So we have something to tell you." "Athena has breast cancer". ..........................................................

Your reply-"Wait, what? She's pregnant. She can't have cancer". 

That's what we thought too!

What now? 

I've had one mastectomy and 4 lympnodes removed at 12 weeks pregnant, 4/25/16. I started chemo 4 weeks later on 5/27/16. 

"Wait, you can have chemo when your pregnant? Does it effect the baby, will you lose weight and be sick? How long do you need treatment?" And on and on an on....

So many questions. After a awhile we stopped telling people. It was exhausting answering these questions. 

The short answers are: it is safe in pregnancy and 20 years of women before me walked this same path and delivered healthy babies. 

I'm eternally grateful for these women. 

The answers do not make the journey easy though. I will endure a couple of surgeries and over a year of treatment, while we raise our baby girl. Wow! "How are we going to get thru this?", I ask myself everyday.  We will get through it with HOPE, great family, supportive friends, excellent medical care, strong spiritual belief, and the constant reminder of that wiggly little baby growing inside me driving me to get up everyday and do the best I can, even if that is laying on the couch. She keeps me going!

Fast forward-I gave birth to beautiful baby girl named Persephone Charlotte Davis on 10/19/16 with no complications. We call her "Sephy".  I was 38 weeks pregnant. She weighed 6lbs, 8 oz and was perfect! I just finished 3 months of a second type of chemo I couldn't have while I was pregnant. I'm starting to feel so much better. That last 3 months have been challenging to try to juggle a newborn and chemotherapy. I was much sicker and weaker than I thought I would be. But now I see the light at the end of the tunnel. I am so grateful to have a healthy baby and to also have my health despite all my cancer diagnosis. My type of cancer is treatable and my prognosis is good! I continue to get stronger everyday and enjoy every literal second of Sephy!"